Stereotyping Asian Men & Their Dating Problems
As Asians, we are seen as scrawny but smart, friendly but quiet, nice but GAY and kung-fu masters but no balls. What's up with that?
We are stereotyped to be incredibly good with math and science, we can ALL do the splits and do back-flips, we are all rice-loving people and anime-watching geeks (you're probably nodding your head and saying, "it's true though", just shut up and keep reading).
Okay, the odds are obviously stacked against us.
Most of us are raised to excel academically under strict upbringings from our parents. We are trained to be submissive and kind, soft-spoken and gentle... no wonder the media think of us as feminine and gay!
Anyway, most Asian guys I know aren't all that smooth and charming. Some of them have crappy body language, bad handshakes, are nervous wrecks around women and give in too easily.
Unlike the usual Caucasian Alpha-male where they are more outspoken, carefree and unafraid of embarassment, we're totally not. They'll do anything and everything to get the attention of a girl.
Us? We don't want to do something stupid that would embarrass our family. We'd be a disgrace and that would really put shame to our family. So we don't do it, right?
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